Oftentimes they are rigid and inflexible in mannerismd and behaviour patterns. They struggle with being easy relaxed and open. They find it difficult to express their emotions through words or any kind of physical intimacy. They Rarely Display Love: They rarely hug or show affection towards people. Every conversation can become weary and you feel like you’re treading on eggshells, never knowing what innocent point of view or casual remark might set them off! They are simply fixated on misery, on unsatisfying lives, jobs and relationships.Įasily Offended: They are extremely sensitive to the slightest criticism and can turn even a compliment into an insult! They often interpret even the most innocent remarks as being rude or a direct insult to them, while most accept them at face value without overanalysing. They don’t acknowledge joy, passion or excitement. #Stop being a negative nancy seriesIt’s like the world is conspiring against them at all times you simply can’t litter negativity everywhere and then wonder why you’ve got a trashy life!Īlways Playing The Victim-Card: Usually reeking of self-pity, negative folk position themselves as the perpetual victims of crises, traumas, illnesses always assuming that life is a constant series of battles. It’s easy to identify negative people – they show a variety of negative personality traits:Ī Negative View Of The World: They love complaining – they’ll whine about the weather, responsibilities or even simply their luck. Maintaining a positive boundary and a positive space protects your mental and psychological wellbeing. If you dig deeper, you could understand the root of their negativity but do not let yourself get dragged into that hole. But try approaching them with a positive mindset instead and maybe they will surprise you! You could, in turn, offer them kindness with firmness. It’s hard to offer compassion to rude and sometimes even obnoxious people. It’s not easy to disconnect with such people when the relationship is intimate or close. Show them empathy, and you get sucked into their doom, one way or another. It requires great effort to be compassionate or sympathetic to people who repeatedly drain everyone around them. Negative folks are often chronically critical, belligerent, indignant, angry or plain rude. They house boundless negative energy which ends up affecting everyone around them. It’s almost like they’ve not had a single day of sunshine in their bleak lives! The world is rather dark from their perspective. Then there are people amidst us who constantly complain about their health, their relationships, their spouse and their kids. Do you have a friend who you love to death but is ‘Oh ever so draining’ to talk to? Every single conversation veers to her complaining, ranting or simply extolling the difficulties she faces every single day. The key to becoming positive is to limit the amount of negativity that we experience by filling ourselves up with positivity. Oftentimes, we carry our own luggage of positive or negative energy. Choosing to feed or fend off positive or negative energy lies in your hands. In life, we encounter situations and people that are either positive or negative. When we decide to become positive, it’s not a simple act of flipping a switch mentally – choices have to be made and hard decision taken to detox your life from all sources of negativity, followed up with correlating action. Life is about experiencing happiness and living in a relatively healthy, balanced and positive manner. Veera is a published Author (‘Endured’ and ‘#LoveBitesLifeHacks’) and Columnist a passionate Educator and Counsellor Poet and Philosopher… but most of all, a lover of all things literary.
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